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Kartavya Aggarwal's avatar

True, I live in a family where women are allowed to be educated but are not allowed to work. Even when I was young, I used to ask my mom why my cousin sisters were not working as it would increase the net family income. The answer I got was, "there is no need, and hamare yaha aisa nahi hota."

Three women who had a deep impact on my life were my nani, mom, and my amma. My amma always supported me and tried to impart wisdom to me, though I don't always listen to her. She is the matriarch of our family and may have gotten married at a young age. When my father came to the city to improve our living conditions and for better opportunities, she was the only one who came with him, supporting him and feeding him while he worked. She used to save money not for herself but for our family. Whenever anyone needed money, she used to give it to them. She even paid for my college tuition when I was not able to afford it.

My amma is a fighter. She is more than 85 years old, has seven children, 18 grandchildren, and 15 great-grandchildren. She has survived two brain hemorrhages and just fought another battle at the hospital. On her last day at the hospital, when I was visiting her, she said to me, "I'm not going to go so easily, at least not before your marriage." xD

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Amin Nirav's avatar

Agree....But HOME RUN SMOOTHLY WHEN SHE IS THERE...

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